Monday 21 September 2009

Deep breath, we've had some bad news.

First of all let me say Jacqui and I have talked about whether or not to post this on the blog and we've come to the conclusion that it happened and we need to keep you guys up to date with what happens to us good and bad.

Unfortunately a couple of weeks ago Jacqui miscarried, she had been pregnant for about 11 weeks and we were very hopeful but it was not meant to be. For those of you that understand these things she was experiencing an ectopic pregnancy, which means that the baby was growing somewhere outside the womb. These things can be very dangerous and cannot be allowed to continue to term. Jacqui's body obviously reallised this hence the miscarriage. She's had a number of blood tests and she seems healthy just one more scan and a visit to the doctor and we should be clear.

We have both had a chance to grieve and we're both back at work but thanks to the people who knew what we were going through and helped us through it. Especially to Elaine and Jamie who made the beginners mistake of coming over to see us before and during this whole thing. They weren't to know and they both helped us in a number of ways and we were glad to have them over at that time. We really hope they managed to have a good holiday too.

We love you guys, take care.